I started Rosemary and Reading Glasses on January 1 this year. I’d blogged for a couple years about food and domestic bliss (along with my husband), but a long-term illness has meant that the food I eat is consistently boring and not write-up worthy.
At the time, my plan was to get myself writing again, and to fulfill my New Year’s resolution, which was to memorize one poem every week. I failed pretty spectacularly at that goal (more on this later), but along the way
a bunch of pretty great stuff has happened.
Friends! I’ve been so lucky to “meet” delightful, thoughtful people this year, people who love books. The only downside is that often you delightful people live states/countries/continents away, so chances of us meeting in real life aren’t too good. But if you’re ever Boston-bound (and you know who you are), let’s get a beer (or a cup of tea) and then go bookstore-hopping, shall we?
Engagement! I don’t know about you, but I always hated whole-class read-alouds in grade school and high school. But the whole reading-separately-together thing has been so much fun! I love seeing everyone’s Classics Club lists, and I liked my first read-along so much — even though the book was atrocious — that I’m hosting my own in 2014. (There’s still time to get in on it! Non-atrocious book, promise.)
Failure! Now, I know this one sounds weird, but here goes. The first ten weeks of my memorize-a-poem-a-week project went according to plan. The next ten weeks weren’t so smooth; I was cramming on Sunday nights to make my Monday memorization deadline. And then I got really sick and ended up in the hospital for ten days, and the whole project was kind of shot to hell. But you know what? It didn’t matter. I still picked a poem to think about and savor every week, even if I couldn’t memorize it. People still read the blog. It was ok. And then I signed myself up — publicly — for NaNoWriMo, and I didn’t finish that either! Guess what? Yep. The sky didn’t fall. Nobpdy reported me to the writing police, and I’m here to tell the tale.
Success! I used to consider not finishing a book a crushing personal failure. Well, maybe not crushing. Anyway. One of the side-effects of my failure episode this year was giving myself permission to put a book aside if I wasn’t enjoying it after thirty or forty pages. Not exactly revolutionary, but it’s a big step forward for me. Poetry brought me back to reading novels again, and I decided to read thirty this year, or a 300% increase from the year before (I’m the at-home parent of a 2 1/2-year-old. Enough said, I hope.). And I read thirty books. Then I read thirty-five more. That’s right, folks. I made it through 65 books this year! It’s not that the number matters (but I do feel pretty awesome), really, but that I thought about those books, wrote about most of them, and talked about them with friends in the blog-world and real-world.
Books! Yeah, I know. Of course. I’ve had my head buried in the seventeenth-century sand for so long that I lost track of contemporary fiction. And it’s wonderful! Even the books published just this year gave me a sense of the richness and breadth i’ve been missing out on. I’m not going to do a best-of-the-year list, because I don’t want to, really, but herewith I present a list of five books that have been flying under the radar this year and deserve more attention.
Hanya Yanagihara, The People in the Trees
Chloe Aridjis, Asunder
Paul Yoon, Snow Hunters
Carlene Bauer, Frances and Bernard
Jenny Uglow, The Pinecone
So, what’s next?
More Poetry! I’ve read 50+ individual poems this year, but only four full collections. That’s kind of lame for someone who considers herself a poetry person. I’m going for seven in 2014. Also, start looking forward to February, because I will be featuring super-sexy poems on Tuesdays. Mostly sexy poems by dead people, because I don’t like Valentine’s Day very much.
More Lists! People love lists, turns out. I only did one this year, and I’m not going to go all Buzzfeed on you next year, but expect a couple more lists in 2014.
More Parks & Rec posts! By far my most popular post this year was a Ron Swanson / Bobby Burns lovefest. So maybe I should write more of those.
A Readalong! Yes, I’ve plugged this one already, but here goes again! Read Paradise Lost this winter! It’s shorter than most novels and will give you some sweet vocab to impress your friends and colleagues before spring arrives.
More of the same! In 2014 you’ll still find poetry posts on Tuesdays and book reviews on Thursdays. I’m a creature of habit.
Thanks for reading this year, friends. It’s been a pleasure. Stay tuned tomorrow for the last poetry post of 2013.
Confidential to my brother: Happy birthday, Tom! You’re one of my favorite readers.
17 thoughts on “Ye Olde Year in Review”
Sounds like you had a great year! I’m looking forward to reading more in 2014!
Thanks, Naomi! I’m looking forward to reading more of your posts, too!
I’m glad you are blogging and that we have “met” this way. My life is richer (especially from a poetry perspective) because of you! 🙂
Thank you, Emily! Poetry makes me so happy, and I’m glad it’s brought a little happiness to you too. I’m so glad to have met you this year!
Awesome post, Carolyn! You’ve had quite a year and I have enjoyed being along for the ride. Thanks especially for pointing out that the world keeps spinning in spite of our failures — loved that, and something I need to have tattooed on my forehead as I step into 2014. Meeting you was a high point of the year for me! Looking forward to chatting more in the year ahead! Cheers, friend!
Angela, I’m so happy to be your friend. Your blog is an oasis of calm and thoughtfulness — I love reading your writing. Take care and happy new year!
A great year indeed. I’d like to read more (any) poetry in 2014, though I don’t think I’m feeling up for Paradise Lost. I like the Donne poems you’ve posted recently. The only poem I remember from high school is A Valediction Forbidding Mourning and I still think it’s pretty awesome.
Have we talked about Frances and Bernard? I’m trying to choose my #1 read of the year and it’s a contender! I loved it so much. The last line absolutely shattered me.
I love Donne too — he’s so naughty, and yet so nice. I’m so bummed you’re not coming along for PL, though! 😦
I think Frances and Bernard was actually the first book we ever talked about — it’s amazing how it transcends religion even while being about religion, isn’t it?
I hope you continue posting about poems, I always enjoy them. There are a few people on twitter who use a #poemoftheday hashtag (I think, maybe it’s #dailypoem?) that’s pretty good.
hah oops, I think you’re right about F&B!
I’m just not ready for PL right now. I don’t want to force it.
Good call on the hash tag — maybe there’s one for poem of the week, too. 🙂
What a great year! Blogging is such a fun adventure, and I’m looking forward to more wonderful posts from you. 🙂
Thanks, Ariel! Likewise, and happy new year!
It has been a great year and I’m glad to have met you (even if I just did). Just so you know, I’m Boston bound once or twice a year. My family still lives there and I try to visit as frequently as I can (I was just there this past October and I may be there again in the next month or two).
Rory! Look me up, yo! My friends Mary and Jaime own an awesome bookstore in Newton, and then there are all the usual Cambridge bookstores, too — we should go!
I love you’re poem a week, so please keep doing it! I have liked almost every one.
Since I’m new to your blog, it was fun getting to know more about you and your projects. I also feel like I’ve had my head stuck in the past for too long and plan to branch out with some more contemporary reads this year. Can’t wait to read your first poetry post for 2014.
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